Last Sunday night, my little sister played her "Riverdance" CD for me and showed off some of her Irish dancing moves. Caught up in the irresistible rhythm of the Celtic music, I joined in the fun, quickly realizing that I had no idea what I was doing. Long long ago, all three of us girls had learned to Irish dance for an Irish dancing contest at our Nana and Papa's Christmas with the extended family. Evi and I had kept going with it, but not possessing the natural coordination Evi has, I moved on to other things.
So as we jumped and stomped around the living room, much to Brian's merriment, Evi decided to slide into the splits, not the normal kind, with the legs out to the side, but with one leg straight out in front and one behind. She was just standing, and then in one smooth motion, she dropped with her legs like that. Not to be outdone, I attempted to do the same. The only problem was that Evi execises every day, takes dance lessons, and is actually flexible, while the most exercise I've gotten in a while is running from class to class in the fridgid air. I suddenly remembered all of these things as I landed with my knees bent at a crazy angle and my hamstrings screaming in protest. The next day, walking up and down stairs was excruciating, sitting was painful, but not as bad as getting up out of the chair. Even walking hurt. My hip joints ached, the inside of my knees ached, my hamstrings sent stabbings of pain to my brain to remind me of my stupidity the day before. Muscles I didn't even know existed were aching!
That morning, as I settled myself into the generously padded rocking chair in the living room with my Bible to read, Edward started giggling from where he sat across the room from me on the couch. I noticed the book I'd given him for Christmas, and I assured myself he was laughing to himself at something he read, not at me. Just then he marked his place and got up to put it away.
"Do you like that book Edward?" I asked.
"Yeah," He grinned shyly.
"Well, why aren't you reading more?"
"I only read two chapters a day." He explained.
"Oh," I could picture him reading all day, and mom making the two chapters a day rule. A thought struck me, "Have you done your devotions today?"
"Yeah, I noticed your daily schedule typed up over your bed, and it says 'Devos' right after getting up."
"Oh, well I don't do that anymore." He stated.
I asked him to name a friend of his, and he named a kid he knew from cub scouts, Nick. I asked him to imagine that he and Nick were friends, but he never talked to him. Nick would try to talk to him, but he would just ignore him.
"How could you still be friends if you didn't talk to each other?"
He thought for a minute. "I don't know."
"Well, you couldn't probably. It's the same way with Jesus. In order to be friends and actually get to know him, you have to talk to him and listen to him every day. When we pray, we talk to him, and when we read the Bible, we listen to him."
"Oh!" I could tell this was clicking for him. "I was reading John, I don't remember where I was, so I think I'll start over at the beginning." After about two minutes, he closed his Bible and zipped the cover shut with an air of finality.
"Did you pray yet?" I probed.
"No," his brow furrowed. "I don't know what to pray about."
"Well, you can pray about anything. You could ask him to help you become better friends," I suggested.
He flopped back on the couch and stuck his fingers in his eyes. "Dear God helpmetobegoodandhelpmetobebetterfriendsamen." With that, he sat up smiling, and put his Bible away.
It's a start, I told myself.
Both of these incidents reminded me of 1 Timothy 4:7-8:
"But reject profane and old wives’ fables, and exercise yourself toward godliness. For bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come.
Godliness is exercise! I hurt myself when I tried to do the splits, because my muscles weren't stretched enough. Right now, reading his Bible and praying are kind of painful for Edward, because he's not used to it. As this verse says, there's only a temporary benefit to being in physical shape, but the benefits of living a godly life are eternal. It takes work to live in a holy way; refusing the temptations for the following, "sexual immorality, impurity, debauchery, idolatry...hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissentions, factions, and envy, drunkness...and the like" (Gal. 5:19-21) But as we painfully stretch ourselves towards godliness, it will get less and less difficult, and we'll see more and more fruit in our lives; love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control (Gal. 5:22-23).